What is Listening?
Anyone remember the "Listen, listen, Linda!" kid?!
(Thats exactly how I feel on the inside when people don't listen.)
LOL! Already laughing outta gate at what prompted this post and realization and happy funnies.
"Listening" is one of THE most powerful biggest gestures of love for one's self and others. Those important to them and those are around them.
Listening "involves" two parts.
3! Actually...
Listening means: Hearing + The Action Heard A Listening
If you got that or knew or do that, thumbs up for you! Most haven't a clue what it is aside from a word. And the MOST toxic and annoying blasphemy people do on a day to day basic is flab the mouth w/ no purpose or understanding from a positive place of love behind it. That formula ALWAYS end non-ideally! Ha! #Karma
When you LISTEN you actually must include the heart and energy soul senses. Not just your human ears as they brain do not love or know how or program to. It is not possible to love from "thinking". That is called "foolishness" aka dark side thinking.
Now, when you listen!
LIFE! Issss.. S-I-M-P-L-E and E-A-S-Y!!!!!
Those 2 words "most" people say its not as those are guaranteed "Non-Listeners" ! Hahaha
Now, WHO do you listen to.
God.
Inner guidence.
Inner knowing.
Those you love (to a point).
Who do you NOT listen to. (everyone else) Lol
Notice the chain of directives?
God first.
Then YOUR OWN inner knowing feelings etc
And.. Then Those you Love.
NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND
Now, WHAT do you listen to.
Well.. Only God can tell you what to do unless you waive or give up your free-will right.
Now w/ out getting tooooo detailed.
The purpose for this post is how to listen in love.
That means.. If you ask someone what pizza they want and they say a certain veggie and you get a different kind. It showed you "didn't listen".
If you are told by a girl (ahem guys) Coconut cupcakes planet Organic and you show up w/ anything else or empty handed or don't. The ONLY valid response is " they were out".
Listening is SO simple and more males struggle to listen then females.
EVERYONE appreciates a listener.
The person who you only spoke to once or twice who knows your favorite chocolate bar. Vs the person you spoke to for 10 years who doesn't even know 1 thing about you like your favorite color.
WHO are you gonna like more?
Taking an interest is what some "people" call it.
But those are the ones who "learn" love from the mind. If you "take an interest" it can still be fake phones and disingenuous. Therefore leading to non-ideal out comes. "Breaksups divorces" lol
I laugh cause it's the effect of the cause of not listening which is simple act of love.
Listening to yourself as well as those around you.
Have you ever spend the day recording yourself to see what you say. Do you LISTEN to yourself?
Meaning.. do you do what you say? Or do you not? Or do you go against yourself!?
That's a sure sign of mindfulness that others are doing that to you and it's p*ssing you off!
How do you stop it?
Stop doing it to your self!
Clear the habit energetically!
Release it from your soul!
And Vuola!
Now a small excerpt of what "listening is NOT" .
Doing something someone tells you to that you feel yuck about or you do not want to do. (this does not include getting outta chores if you are learning "work ethic" and "honor and appreciation" of one's stuff)
This is doing something non loving to you or others. Then you say, NO! And do not do that.
Hahahah..
Heard someone who will read this say.. So what's "hearing" . The act and sound of "hearing" a noise sound vibe voice word music note etc.
That is what most people do. They "HEAR" .
So, gentleman the next time you whine or wimped about lady who is upset cause you didn't listen. You can only be upset at yourself. Especially if she has mentioned it repeatly. Ha.
Simple = Listen
So the lesson is to LISTEN! :)
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